I don’t know if you all know this about me, but I’m kind of a bit of a sex toy collector. I’ve got everything from insanely realistic dildos such as RealDoll’s RealCock2 to fantasy dildos to grinders to vibrators to everything in between. What can I say? I just really, really love sex toys! So much so that my partner and I put up display cases this year to showcase some of our more unique toys that we’re most proud of.

That is why I’m writing this today! With the holiday season quickly approaching, I wanted to put together a lil holiday shopping guide for my fans. These are toys that I genuinely like and that I would actually recommend. I think it’s important to note that yes, some of the below links are affiliate links, but I do not accept brand deals, sponsorships or even affiliate deals with any company that I do not actually like. You’ve likely seen me talk about some of these toys on Twitter, Instagram, PornHub or XVideos. I’m including them here because I actually use them in my personal life, not just on camera!!

For the pillow & leg humpers: Uncover Creations’ Tentacle Grinder II

I love this grinder for so, so many reasons. First, it has straps long enough to fit my thighs! But not just my thighs, the straps are 2.5ft long meaning they can comfortably attach to thicker thighs than mine too. Second, grinders make for a great addition to a group sex scenario when you wish you had an extra hand. Third, this particular model has proven popular with my cis and trans friends, which tells me that it’s enjoyable for every body. Uncover Creations just added an option for a vibrator bullet hole too, which takes this grinder to a whole different level of pleasure. Black Friday weekend deals have yet to get announced, but I’ll update this once I see something come through!

For the horror fans & goths: Velvet Alley’s Craven 

If you follow me on Twitter, you’ve definitely seen me talk about Velvet Alley. As a bit of a goth myself, finding a company that makes goth and horror themed toys was pretty exciting. It’s hard to pick just one favorite model of theirs, because I have 2 from VA that are now my “go-to” toys: Craven and The Widow. Hell, even Cassie’s favorite dildo is Legacy from VA! So why Craven if I have 2 favorites? Craven has a super comfortable base to hold for hand pumping, the texture is just a little bit more enjoyable for me, and honestly, I just really love the custom pour they did for my order. I was eyeing Craven for months but didn’t have an idea for how I wanted it poured, but then when I found inspiration, VA really did a beautiful job making it! For Black Friday weekend, Velvet Alley is offering 20% off gift cards, a new “open viewing mystery box” where you can pick a model & the rest of the box is a mystery, and 40% off everything else! 

Here’s what Cassie has to say about Legacy: “I like the spiral texture and the horn is firm enough to press into my prostate. The skull makes it really easy to set down and ride, and the eye sockets make excellent finger holds for hand pumping.” 

For the person looking for a comfortable & cute harness: RodeoH

I’ve been aware of RodeoH for years, long before they offered any extended plus sizes beyond XL. I’m happy to report that RodeoH has expanded their plus size line of panty & brief style strap-on harnesses quite a bit to include sizes up to 5X. They have so many cute, playful and sexy designs to choose from and I own 6 of them now! They have different o-ring sizes to meet the needs of most strap-on users, though I will say that they are lacking in o-ring sizes big enough to fit girthy toys with their largest o-ring size at 2.5″. Both Cassie and I use the RodeoH harnesses both on camera and off camera, and they’re incredibly comfortable. I love the open butt styles and hope that they expand more of them into their plus size selection! For Black Friday weekend, RodeoH is offering a Buy One Get One for 50% off deal on harnesses, $10 plaid underwear and a huge sale on bundles & toys!

For the fans of glass toys: Elegant Glass

Its only in the last month that I’ve finally owned one of these beautiful dildos from Elegant Glass. I’ve eyed their toys on Twitter for years at this point, so when Cassie gifted me the pink one for my birthday, I was over the moon. Each of their toys are unique pieces of art and beautifully made. As a huge fan of glass, these dildos that Cassie purchased have quickly become requests in our bedroom for both of us and have earned a spot in our sex toy display cases. For Black Friday weekend, shop their Etsy store for automatic discounts or use coupon code SEGBlackFriday2022Sale on their website for a discount!

Here’s what Cassie has to say about Elegant Glass: “The red dildo has weight at the end gives an nJoy Wand like experience. It’s excellent for prostate stimulation and very easy to use for handholding.” 

For the realistic dildo lover who has luxurious taste: RealDoll’s RealCock 2

These are easily the highest quality and most realistic dildos in my arsenal. I’m literally obsessed with how real they look and feel. Everything from the floating balls to the way the skin moves just feels so real. They are the closest to the real thing that you can buy. Cassie and I own Rockwell, Dirk and Bruce, and they get used frequently. Cassie goes so far as to call Dirk her “comfort dick” and asks me to use it on her pretty regularly. Dirk is also their best selling model! For performers like us, these cocks are almost indistinguishable on camera, especially if positioned just right. For Black Friday weekend, RealDoll is offering 20% off all RealCock 2 models! The coupon code will be announced on site & to their email subscriber list closer to Black Friday weekend.

For the magic wand fans: Doxy

I got a Doxy massager a few years ago after trying a friend’s during a scene. I was blown away by the power and how sleek and sexy their designs are. While mine is their wired Original Doxy Massager, Doxy has since expanded their offerings to include wireless, die cast, and customizable versions. While I haven’t tried them, they do also have wand toppers of their own, including a rabbit style attachment, a prostate attachment, and a masturbator sleeve attachment! For Black Friday weekend, Doxy is offering 30% off plus free shipping with code BLACK22.

For the best retailer: Betty’s Toy Box

Betty’s Toy Box approached me a few months ago to partner with them as an affiliate, which after doing my research on them, I happily accepted. Rather than using the typical gendered terms, Betty’s Toy Box labels products for their purpose: anal play, vibrators, dildos, etc. They also have a really educational blog that has toy reviews, sex tips, wellness articles and more. When it comes to purchasing toys from bigger brands, I’ve started using Betty’s at every chance I get. They sell major brands such as LELO, Fun Factory, Doc Johnson, Womanizer, Vixen Creations, and more. For Black Friday weekend, Betty’s Toy Box is having deals on deals on deals, including 20% off entire lines from brands plus free shipping on all orders over $69!

As an avid sex toy collector, putting together a list of my favorites was a damn challenge. I have so many that I grab from my collection regularly, just depending on my mood. Beyond these listed above, some additional recommendations include Mr Hankey’s Toys, John Thomas Toys, Factory D, and Fantasy Grove. I own toys from each of them that also get quite a bit of use both on camera and off. What toys are you purchasing for yourself or loved ones this holidays season?