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So, believe it or not, having a back-log of videos is actually relatively easy to accomplish…somewhat time consuming, but the easiest and most fun (for me, at least) . This is coming from someone who has 1-very little “free” or “extra” time, 2-has at least 3-6 months of back-logged content […]

Porn How-To: Making a Back-Log of Videos


Loving my body 1
For years now, I’ve struggled finding my spot in the adult industry in terms of body size & classification. There seems to be this idea that girls aren’t BBW’s if they don’t fit into specifications such as weight or tit size or belly size. It’s hard to remain body positive […]

BBW or Not BBW? Who really knows?


Crystal Delights Frosted Delight
In case you’ve never noticed in my videos or on Twitter, I’m a huge fan of glass dildos. In fact, I have more glass toys in my toy box than any other material! When I first learned about Crystal Delights, I was super excited…beautifully made glass toys with pretty sparkley […]

Toy Review: Crystal Delights’ Frosted Delight



Shoot Ideas
The other day one of my colleagues came at me with an interesting question: “How do you organize for a shoot?” A loaded question, with an even more loaded answer!! I wanted to break down my system, because I think it’s actually pretty efficient for getting things done when doing […]

How To Plan For A Shoot


After the last blog I wrote about my struggles with depression & anxiety as a sex worker, a lot of conversations were had with fellow sex workers about finding the motivation to work while struggling with depression & anxiety. A couple people came to me and asked for tips or […]

Mental Health & Sex Work: Part 2


So this is a post I’ve wanted to make for a long time now. Well, by long time, I really only mean about 2 years. Talking about mental health isn’t hard. Talking about sex work isn’t hard. But each can be really hard if you’re talking to someone who a) […]

Mental Health & Sex Work



Me first video response to my new #AskMeAnything Series! Each week, I’ll be answering fan submitted questions on my YouTube channel! This week’s question comes from one of My customers who orders custom videos from Me regularly. He asked “How often You come up with a rare original and how […]

#AskMeAnything – Episode 1


#SWGivesStigmaTakes has pulled on my heartstrings all day long. There are so many amazing stories being shared on Twitter, and I wish I could share them all! But, that would be using others’ stories without their consent, so you’re just stuck here with my stories 🙂 As a sex worker, […]

Video Blog: #SWGivesStigmaTakes


I’ve spent most of the time I’ve worked in “the industry” single. It’s mainly just easier to remain single than having to weed through the people who want to date me because I’m a fetish they have or they like the idea of dating a porn star. The thing about dating […]

My Experiences in Dating While in The Industry