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10 week old dutch Shepard being held by brunette pornstar Sydney Screams
I’ve been doing sex work for about 15 years at this point. I started when I was 19, after returning from a semester abroad my sophomore year of college. I’m now 34 and doing sex work full time, but I haven’t always done this as my only full time career. […]

Handling Burn Out in the Adult Industry



BBW Sydney Screams Fucks Chris Cardio
Can you believe that tomorrow is September? Because, uh, I cannot. I’ve been meaning to sit down and write a blog since May… and now, here I am. Behind AF. Things have been busy, to say the least. 2021 has been a whirlwind year for me, and I still have […]

Mid-Year 2021 Life Update



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You bought access to your favorite pornstar’s snapchat or maybe you just follow them on Twitter, and you’re trying to figure out how to get them to interact with you. You’ve tried saying “Hey” or some variation over and over again, but they just won’t answer. So then you tried […]

How to Chat with Pornstars (Successfully)


When I walked into my local toy store and saw the Ola, I was SO excited. The store display at Fairvilla Megastore was nicely done, with testers of the Ola and Limon toys on the table. I was particularly turned on to the idea of controlling the vibration rhythm and strength. Naturally, […]

Toy Review: Minna’s Ola


Shoot Ideas
The other day one of my colleagues came at me with an interesting question: “How do you organize for a shoot?” A loaded question, with an even more loaded answer!! I wanted to break down my system, because I think it’s actually pretty efficient for getting things done when doing […]

How To Plan For A Shoot



BBW Sydney Screams
It’s true! I’ve started camming regularly! Well, more regularly than I used to. I’ve been online at least once a week now, whereas before I was only on cam once every few months…at most. Well, now you can catch me on cam, in a number of places! If you don’t […]

Catch Me on Cam!


After the last blog I wrote about my struggles with depression & anxiety as a sex worker, a lot of conversations were had with fellow sex workers about finding the motivation to work while struggling with depression & anxiety. A couple people came to me and asked for tips or […]

Mental Health & Sex Work: Part 2


So this is a post I’ve wanted to make for a long time now. Well, by long time, I really only mean about 2 years. Talking about mental health isn’t hard. Talking about sex work isn’t hard. But each can be really hard if you’re talking to someone who a) […]

Mental Health & Sex Work