Just a few months ago, I had no idea that pussy plugs existed or even what they’re for. Today, I’m writing this with one inserted. Funny how that works sometimes, isn’t it?

That’s right, as I write this, I’ve got the supersoft Oxballs Honcho plug filling up my pussy. And boy, it sure is filling me up! But before I get to the review, I want to take a second to explain what a pussy plug is and why you might want to use one.

What is a vaginal plug?

Much like a butt plug, a pussy plug is a short toy meant for extended insertion to give the user a sense of fullness. Though butt plugs can be used as pussy plugs, not all are comfortable shapes for extended wear or are made with body safe materials that can be safely used in both holes. Vaginal plugs, or pussy plugs, are perfect for those who need a bit of warming up before penetration or those who want to stretch their muscles out. They’re also good for those who love the feeling of being full while they receive external stimulation or anal penetration. Pussy plugs also help strengthen your pelvic floor muscles, which can improve orgasms and help with incontinence. Plugs can be worn for a few minutes up to a few hours, though overnight use is not recommended, and you should train yourself to work up to extended wear.

Why use a pussy plug?

Vaginal plugs are used for pleasure, exercise and even pelvic floor health. Pussy plugs are great for anyone with a vagina whether you’re looking to stretch your pussy, prepare for vaginal penetration, or strengthening your pelvic floor muscles. Better orgasms and more comfortable sex are good enough reasons for me!

How do you use a pussy plug?

Start with a bit of lube and slowly insert it. Regardless of design, shape or size, a pussy plug should give you the sense of fullness. They can be used for solo play or partner play, or even just as a muscle trainer while you answer emails or take a walk. For solo play, you can insert a plug and rock your hips or flex your kegal muscles, or take things up to the next level and grab a vibe to press against the base of the plug or on your clit. For partnered play, you can use it while your partner is going down on you, using a vibe on you, or while penetrating you anally. The point is that you can use a pussy plug for pleasure or as part of your daily workout.

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So now that you’ve learned a little bit about pussy plugs, let’s get down to business…

The superset, squishy Oxballs Honcho

The Honcho plug by Oxballs is a soft silicone plug that can be used anally or vaginally, though I only used it vaginally. Mine is the smallest size available at 4″ insertable, 4.75″ total length, with a 3.5-5.5″ circumference. There are 2 other sizes available, with the largest having a 8.8″ circumference for some serious stretching!

Peepshow Toys partnered with Oxballs for an exclusive coloration called “Blackberry”, which caught my eye with the beautiful purple and shimmery plum marbled together. Since all of Oxballs toys are handmade in the USA, every plug will have a unique look.

All of Oxballs toys are made with a deliciously smooth silicone. There is some drag, so be sure to use your favorite water based lube to help make insertion easier. They only use pure platinum silicone, meaning you can easily clean this plug with soap & water, a bleach/water solution, a run through the dishwasher or thrown in a pot of boiling water. Silicone is also non-porous and body safe, which means you can use it both anally & vaginally, as long as you thoroughly clean it before switching between holes.

The design of the Honcho is a bit of a chode – he’s short, fat, and has that perfect mushroom head that you just know will feel incredible inside of you. And believe me, he does. 

The first time I took Honcho for a test drive, I inserted him in hopes of keeping him inside while I throwing strap. I failed. The flared base gave me a little bit of a pinching sensation, as I have pretty meaty labia. I needed to figure out how to work around, so I ended up not using him that night. The second time I tried him out, I took a bit more time positioning him so that the base didn’t pinch my lips. I wore a pair of panties to keep him in place and went about my business. He was very, very filling…almost to a fault (but that could be my horny ADHD brain getting distracted by how good he felt). Every movement I made, whether walking, dancing, rocking my hips, or flexing my kegals, was filled with pleasure. Honcho felt good. I felt so filled up, so full, growing more and more horny as the minutes passed.

After giving myself a break after about an hour, I spent the rest of the day aching for that sense of fullness. Honcho rocked my world!! But it wasn’t until I used him while masturbating that I really got to enjoy him.

I’ve always been a fan of inserting a dildo while using a clit vibrator. Usually I opt for heavy toys as it makes it easier to grind on them without the toy sliding out. I’ve never used a toy that pretty much just stayed put the entire time! That’s exactly what a pussy plug does though. I took a wand style vibe and alternated between using it on my clit and on the base of the plug, and it was amazing.

Now that I’ve figured out how to insert it without the base pinching my labia, I cannot wait to have this inserted while I throw strap or while my partner goes down on me!

My small Oxballs Honcho vs Cassie’s large Honcho

My partner was also sent the largest size that Oxballs makes and we’ve noticed that it doesn’t stand up very well on its own due to the softness of the silicone and the weight of it. I haven’t had that issue with the smallest size, but there is a big difference in weight: the small is 6.2oz and the large is 14oz.

Peepshow Toys does also sell the Honcho in black and rainbow too, but the blackberry coloration is 100% exclusive to Peepshow, so you cannot find this one anywhere else. Personally, I like the blackberry coloration a bit more than the rainbow. At the time of writing this, Peepshow Toys has the pricing for all 3 colorations listed at $49 for the small, $64 for the medium, and $89 for the large.

Though this blog is sponsored by Peepshow Toys, all thoughts and opinions are my own. Please consider using my included affiliate links to shop, as they give me a little bit of a kickback so that I can keep buying more sex toys to review!