Cuckolding is one of my biggest fetishes, and one that I touch in pretty regularly in the porn I make. The power play, the humiliation, the pleasure all mix together into the perfect cocktail of fun.🥵
What is cuckolding? At its most basic definition, cuckolding is when a man watches his girlfriend or wife have sex with another man. For me, cuckolding goes beyond that. Cuckolding is when a submissive partner is made to watch their more dominant partner engage in sex with someone else. As a non-binary dominant, I prefer to leave the gendered aspect of cuckolding aside.
Cuckolding can be problematic. It’s not uncommon for white men to fantasy about being cucked by their partner with a black man, but lose interest when the other man is white. Recently, I’ve noticed a rise of men wanting their partner to cuck them with a trans woman. The problem isn’t cuckolding itself, the problem is the fetishization of marginalized individuals.
Sydney Screams giving a blowjob to Cherry Mavrik from the scene “Cucked & Punished by Horny Nuns” available on SydneyScreams.xxx
In my world, anyone can be a cuck, and anyone can be a “bull.” Men, women, trans people. All of them can fit into either category.
So what about cuckolding is so damn hot?!Â
For some, cuckolding is based in the subconscious feeling of inadequacy. For others, it’s just a huge turn on watching their partner with someone else.
When I had a submissive boyfriend who was also a cuck, we’d both find a lot of excitement in the process of my getting ready to go hook up with someone else. I’d make him help me shave my pussy, help me pick out sexy outfits, and even mark him with my lipstick before I’d walk out the door to go meet up with my side piece or one night stand.
From a dominant perspective, I love putting submissives in their place. I love taking control and doing what I want, who I want, when I want. Cuckolding isn’t always mean, sometimes it’s playful and fun. Sometimes I’ve got quite the mean streak that comes out when I’m belittling my partner, or viewer, and reminding them of how they’re unable to please me the way my lover can.
Sydney Screams being fucked by Dan Ferrari while cuckolding Suzanne Ferrari from the scene “Fucking Her Husband”, available on SydneyScreams.xxx
In a cuckolding relationship, My pleasure is what’s most important. It’s not that a cuck can’t please Me, it’s that they can’t give Me enough. That submissive boyfriend I mentioned before? His dick was little & couldn’t satisfy Me but he was amazing with his mouth. I loved making him warm me up before a date or clean Me up after a date. He understood that he only got pleasure when I would allow it, though he often got a different type of pleasure in pleasing Me.
There are a few other fetishes that I believe can play into the cuckolding fetish:
- Humiliation, such as small penis humiliation
- Degradation
- Chastity
- Cheating or Ethical non-monogamy
- Power play
- Sadism & masochism
- Coerced bisexuality
- Domination & submission
- Bondage
This list is a bit of a “pick your poison” list, not everyone is into all of these things, and that’s OK! Fetishes are deeply personal and should be enjoyed in ways that work for you & your relationship.
Cuckolding isn’t always an in-person affair. Sure, sometimes partners participate in cuckolding in the same room, but cuckolding can also happen at a distance. For example, there’s a plethora of FemDom POV videos in which the viewer is cuckolded, sometimes not even by seeing the actual action happening! I also make videos with other performers in which we cuckold the viewer. I used to send videos or photos of myself getting fucked or giving blowjobs over to my submissive boyfriend (with permission from my lover, of course).
Sometimes, cuckolds are even part of the pleasure! Some cucks want to “fluff” their partner and/or their partner’s lover(s), some cucks are used as human furniture, some cucks are made to suck toes, clean up cum, etc.
“Cuckolding My Boyfriend” featuring Sydney Screams & Kai Bailey, available on SydneyScreams.manyvids.com
Hotels are perfect for in-person cuckolding! Many hotels feature a chair facing the bed, a chair that I’ve referred to as “the cuck chair” for years. If not a single chair, then a table with chairs surrounding it. I also like hotels because it gets couples out of their comfort zones, to a neutral place that they can physically leave behind and also mentally leave behind. It adds a bit of closure that I find is a nice touch of aftercare!
And yes, it’s ok for a cuck to ask for aftercare! Cuckolding can be therapeutic for cucks, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t need reassurance, physical touch, or other forms of aftercare. In my experience, aftercare rarely occurs in porn even when it’s a femdom POV video. That doesn’t mean that cucks don’t need aftercare! It’s always ok to ask for aftercare.
I always have so much fun cuckolding people, whether it’s an actual IRL partner or a viewer. The joy I get from cuckolding is very evident in my cuckolding porn scenes and in my talking head videos. I’ve had the pleasure of cucking men and women. I can’t say I’ve ever cucked a trans person, though I would if the opportunity were to come up. All I know is that I’m going to keep putting cucks in their place for a long time! 😉😈