Sydney Screams


Blush's Strapless Strap-on Collection 2
Strap-ons are complicated when you’re fat. There’s literally no way to get around that. Most strap-ons are for standard size bodies and even when they’re adjustable, they rarely go up to sizes beyond a XL equivalent. I’ve tried numerous brands that promise they’ll be big enough for me, a smol […]

The Best Strapless Strap-Ons for Plus Size Bodies


Blush Love Kegal Training Kit
When Blush asked me if I’d write a blog about wellness, my first thoughts were about how the public perception of sexual health in the adult industry is so misconstruded. The idea that porn stars are somehow “dirty” is something I’ve heard a lot from those who just simply are […]

Sexual Wellness & The Right Tools for the Job


Blush's Temptasia Remote Control Panty Vibe 1
Have I ever mentioned what a sucker I am for public play? Now seems like a great opportunity to remind you of that fun li’l Sydney fact. Public play is incredibly arousing to me. A lot of the erotica I consume features public play and many of my hottest memories […]

Temptasia Remote Control Panty Vibe Review




The world is a weird, uncertain place right now. And let’s be real, it’s messing with all of us creative types. Somedays, we can create, somedays we just don’t have it in us. It’s understandable. We’re in the midst of a pandemic, something that we’ve not had to live through […]

8 Tips for Creating Content in Uncertain Times


So, believe it or not, having a back-log of videos is actually relatively easy to accomplish…somewhat time consuming, but the easiest and most fun (for me, at least) . This is coming from someone who has 1-very little “free” or “extra” time, 2-has at least 3-6 months of back-logged content […]

Porn How-To: Making a Back-Log of Videos




Shoot Ideas
The other day one of my colleagues came at me with an interesting question: “How do you organize for a shoot?” A loaded question, with an even more loaded answer!! I wanted to break down my system, because I think it’s actually pretty efficient for getting things done when doing […]

How To Plan For A Shoot


So this is a post I’ve wanted to make for a long time now. Well, by long time, I really only mean about 2 years. Talking about mental health isn’t hard. Talking about sex work isn’t hard. But each can be really hard if you’re talking to someone who a) […]

Mental Health & Sex Work