When I opened up the first box from Blush, I was shocked. I knew this was the dildo I had picked out, but I didn’t realize that *this* was the dildo I picked out. To a novice sex toy user, Lycan from Blush’s The Realm collection might be a bit […]
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This dildo review is a long time coming and one I'm really excited about! I mean, how could I not? RealDoll is an incredible brand offering truly luxury products and they were kind enough to gift me one of their RealCocks.
Dildo Review: RealDoll’s Dirk RealCock 2
First off, thank you to everyone on Twitter who shared what they would want to see me blog about!! Creating resources for fellow SWers is something hugely important to me. I don’t have the bandwidth to help 1 on 1, despite the fact that I always want to help my […]
Shoot Workflows
The world is a weird, uncertain place right now. And let’s be real, it’s messing with all of us creative types. Somedays, we can create, somedays we just don’t have it in us. It’s understandable. We’re in the midst of a pandemic, something that we’ve not had to live through […]
8 Tips for Creating Content in Uncertain Times
As promised, this is a continuation of my last blog, which focused on the tools needed to up your clip production game. Tools are half the battle and unfortunately, they’re the easy part. I’d like to share a piece of knowledge that I remind myself of pretty often: What works […]
Upping Your Clip Production Game in 2019: Part 2
In the early part of 2018, I made myself a list of goals for myself as a sex worker. The goals were things like “I want to make $XXXX per month” and “I want to create more X, Y & Z varieties of content.” And then I broke down those […]
Upping Your Clip Production Game in 2019: The Tools
So, believe it or not, having a back-log of videos is actually relatively easy to accomplish…somewhat time consuming, but the easiest and most fun (for me, at least) . This is coming from someone who has 1-very little “free” or “extra” time, 2-has at least 3-6 months of back-logged content […]
Porn How-To: Making a Back-Log of Videos
Recently, I did my very first week of shooting hardcore boy/girl porn for my own site. I’ve casually shot girl/girl porn for my site for a while now and I have shot boy/girl porn for other companies (but it’s been a few years). I knew there would be some differences and […]
Things I Learned During My First Week Self-Producing B/G Porn
The other day one of my colleagues came at me with an interesting question: “How do you organize for a shoot?” A loaded question, with an even more loaded answer!! I wanted to break down my system, because I think it’s actually pretty efficient for getting things done when doing […]
How To Plan For A Shoot
Ordering a custom video is exciting. You sit in the director’s chair and bring your ultimate fantasy to life with a custom video. Maybe you’ve inquired with your favorite model about getting a custom fetish video and the price was more than you anticipated. You probably wonder “How can a […]
The Real Cost of Custom Videos
After the last blog I wrote about my struggles with depression & anxiety as a sex worker, a lot of conversations were had with fellow sex workers about finding the motivation to work while struggling with depression & anxiety. A couple people came to me and asked for tips or […]
Mental Health & Sex Work: Part 2
So this is a post I’ve wanted to make for a long time now. Well, by long time, I really only mean about 2 years. Talking about mental health isn’t hard. Talking about sex work isn’t hard. But each can be really hard if you’re talking to someone who a) […]