It took one single use of the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy vibrator for me to decide that it’s officially a staple in my nightstand. One. Single. Use. And I loved it.
I have hundreds of sex toys. Some that aren’t even manufactured anymore that I will cry when they finally die. But none of them are quite like this. It’s literally the perfect g-spot vibrator.
Sure, I’d read the rave reviews. I’d seen it recommended countless times. But to actually try it myself? I suddenly understood why it’s so loved. Pillow Talk Sassy is a damn good vibrator.
Allow Me To Introduce You to Pillow Talk Sassy
BMS Pillow Talk Sassy is a g-spot vibrator with a rumbly motor and BMS’s signature incremental speed control. This vibrator is made with body-safe silicone with ABS accents, and a Swarovski crystal button to control the vibration intensity.
The motor on Pillow Talk Sassy is very, very powerful. It’s a deep, rumbly motor with BMS’s PowerBullet vibrator technology. It has adjustable vibration intensity, aka incremental speed control. This adjustable intensity allows for custom speed control.
Available in 3 colors: teal, pink, and lilac. Both the pink and teal versions have silver accents, whereas the lilac is the deluxe edition with gold accents. The deluxe edition also comes with a matching blindfold and a foreplay card game. All three versions come with a satin storage bag and charging cord.
Measuring in at 7.5″ long, BMS Pillow Talk Sassy has an insertable length of 5″ and 1.5″ width at the widest point. The widest point is at the head.
The silicone on this vibrator is so smooth, with very little drag. It feels luxurious when holding it, and the diamond-quilted handle gives an easier grip when lubed up. It’s a water-resistant vibrator, but it is not submersible, so don’ take it in the bathtub (but the shower is ok!).
Pillow Talk Sassy is a thicker vibrator, with a bulbous head and a thinner shaft, and at first, I wondered if it was thicker than I was ready for. The vibrations do travel down the shaft, meaning it’s not just your g-spot getting stimulation with this toy.
Pros:
- Incremental speed control
- Satin storage bag included
- Water resistant and rechargeable
- Body-safe silicone is super smooth & silky
- Curved head is perfect for g-spot stimulation
- Flexible neck/shaft
Cons:
- Not submersible
- People who like pinpoint stimulation will find this too broad
How to Use the Pillow Talk Sassy
Though it was designed as a g-spot vibrator, Pillow Talk Sassy can be used internally or external on your clit or nipples. There is no flared base, so it’s not recommended to use this vibrator anally. Personally, I didn’t love using it as a clit vibe, but I tend to prefer a more pinpointed stimulation.
Once the vibrator is fully charged, press the crystal button on the base to turn on. Press and hold the button to increase speed. Press the button again to turn off.
To turn on the travel lock, turn on the vibrator then press the button 3 times until you feel 2 vibrations. To unlock, either press the button 3 times until you feel 2 vibrations, or plug Pillow Talk Sassy in to charge. Once fully charged and unplugged, the travel lock will automatically be turned off.
The incremental power control does take some getting used to. If you increase power too much, just tap the button twice. This will quickly turn it off and turn it back on again at the lowest speed.
Care & Cleaning Pillow Talk Sassy
To clean the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy, use a damp cloth and toy cleaner or warm, soapy water. It also comes with a small brush to clean the metallic band and around the button.
To charge, insert the pin of the USB cord into the charing port on the bottom, side of the vibrator. When plugged in, the LED light on the base will slowly pulse, then go solid when fully charged.
It’s recommended to use a water-based lubricant with Pillow Talk Sassy.
My Experiences
Honestly, I just knew I was going to enjoy Pillow Talk Sassy. I didn’t realize just how much, but my gut kept telling me that I was going to like it. From the moment my wife slid it into me, I lost all ability to speak. It’s a great size for me and the shape…my gosh that shape! Perfectly designed to hit the g-spot.
I’ve mentioned before that I generally don’t enjoy other people using vibrators on me quite as much as solo usage, but Pillow Talk Sassy was absolutely an outlier. I loved having my wife use it on me, just as much as I loved using it on myself. Whether it was pumping into me or just holding still while I used a bullet vibe on my clit, this vibrator did it for me every single time. Aside from the BMS Swan Maximum Bullet, no other vibrator has held that claim. Orgasms came so quickly and easily both solo and with a partner. It’s just that fucking good. 🥵
The rumbles on this vibrator are insanely powerful, and never turn buzzy the way some vibrators do. The range of power on Pillow Talk Sassy is great for beginners and more advanced users. Seriously, the incremental power control means there’s a perfect setting for every body.
I got the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy Deluxe Edition, which had a blindfold and cards, but the cards stayed in the plastic wrapping until time to write this review. Not to brag, but I’ve got a pretty great sex life with my wife that is constantly changing and evolving, so a foreplay card game didn’t appeal to me. The cards basically give suggestions for how and where to use the vibrator.
Final Thoughts
In case it wasn’t obvious, I’m obsessed! I think this is a fantastic g-spot vibrator for both solo and partner play, and I wish I had gotten it sooner.
As my wife and I plan for our upcoming international move, we’ve been narrowing down what toys we’re bringing with us. BMS Pillow Talk Sassy has absolutely made the cut. I think my exact words were “That is coming with us to Europe!!!!” which came out of my mouth as soon as I found the ability to speak again after that first use. It’s that good.
Regularly priced at $68.99 for the pink and teal version, or $72.99 for the deluxe lilac edition, I think the BMS Pillow Talk Sassy is absolutely worth it.
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