Sex Toy Reviewer & Adult Performer

About Me

Curvy. Queer. Kinky.

Hey, I’m Sydney.

I'm a sex toy reviewer, pornstar, niche fetish actrexx, producer, and photographer. My pronouns are they/them and I'm a non-binary Mommy Domme.

I originally started my career at 19 years old after some photographer friends of mine urged me to get in front of the camera instead of staying behind it. I had so much fun that I just kept coming back for more, and eventually started growing my own brand! 

That was 2009. Fast forward to today – I've appeared on Plumper Pass, Jeff's Models, BBW Adventures, Rodney Moore, Queer Crush, and Hustler Online. I've been nominated for over 20 awards from AVN, xBiz, TEAs, BBW Award Show, ASN, and more. In 2024, I won Best Non-TS Female Performer of the Year at the Trans Erotica Awards (TEAs). 

It's 2025 and I'm now living in Europe, continuing to produce niche fetish and XXX hardcore porn, writing toy reviews, and living my best life. 

When I'm not blogging about sex toys, filming & editing videos, and all the other tasks I manage to cram into my workday, I really enjoy baking, cooking, practicing photography, traveling, reading, gaming, and spending time with my wife & friends. Video game-wise, I've recently played Vampire Survivors, Mario Kart, Diablo III, and Baulder's Gate 3. I also play Magic the Gathering, Eldritch Horror, and whatever other board games/table top games we're playing with friends. 

My sexuality is quite fluid – I'm a dominant, pansexual aromantic and attracted to people of all shapes, sizes and genders, but personality is what ultimately wins me over. I'm a top leaning vers and pleasure domme, and I enjoy giving pleasure just as much as I love receiving it. My wife & I are in an open marriage, in which she is polyamorous and I like having other lovers/play partners. 

Gender-wise, I'm non-binary femme who uses they/them pronouns. 

I live with AuDHD and have nerve damage in my right hand that causes grip issues, something I regularly talk about in my reviews in hopes of helping others with grip issues. As someone on the spectrum, I'm often very blunt and direct, and ask for clarification often to make sure I'm understanding. Thanks to ADHD, I'm on stimulants to help me get through my days, which also cause me to experience vaginal dryness, so lubricants are my best friend when it comes to sex. 

Busty Tattooed BBW MILF Sydney Screams in blue lingerie laying on the floor with her toes on the couch

I've tried more sex toys than I can count, but it far exceeds just those I've written about here, and ranges from vibrators to dildos to gags to spreader bars to e-stim to fuck machines. I started writing toy reviews years and years ago on a site I won't mention here, but it wasn't until 2023 that I really started to prioritize sharing my experiences with the world via my YouTube channel, PornHub channel, and here on my blog.

Even as someone who loves getting penetrated and penetrating others, I'm also an advocate of de-centralizing penetration as the only form of sex. Grinder sex toys are my favorite type of toy for enjoying non-penetrative sex. 

My Pleasure Preferences

My hot takes on pleasure:

  • Pinpoint clitoral stimulation > broad clitoral stimulation.
  • Air-pulsation & suction do not pair well with penetration.
  • Realistic skin tones don't belong on non-realistic dildos.
  • Sex isn't over just because one person achieved orgasm.
  • Pegging with a pussy plug in > strapless strap-on.
  • Every body deserves pleasure.  

My favorite sex toys: