About Me

When I’m not blogging about sex toys, filming & editing videos, and all the other tasks I manage to cram into my workday, I really enjoy baking, cooking, practicing photography, traveling, reading, gaming, and spending time with my wife & friends. Video game-wise, I’ve recently played Vampire Survivors, Mario Kart, Diablo III, Baulder’s Gate 3, and Pit People. I also play Magic the Gathering, Eldritch Horror, and whatever other board games/table top games we’re playing with friends. 

My sexuality is quite fluid – I’m dominant, pansexual, and attracted to people of all shapes, sizes and genders, but personality is what ultimately wins me over. I’m a top leaning vers and pleasure domme, and I enjoy giving pleasure just as much as I love receiving it. My wife & I are in an open marriage. 

Gender-wise, I’m non-binary femme who uses they/them pronouns. 

I live with AuDHD and have nerve damage in my right hand that causes grip issues, something I regularly talk about in my reviews in hopes of helping others with grip issues select the right toys for their needs. As someone on the spectrum, I’m often very blunt and direct, and ask for clarification often to make sure I’m understanding. Thanks to ADHD, I’m on stimulants to help me get through my days, which also cause me to experience vaginal dryness, so lubricants are my best friend when it comes to sex. 

I’ve tried more sex toys than I can count, but it far exceeds just those I’ve written about here, and ranges from vibrators to dildos to gags to spreader bars to e-stim to fuck machines. I started writing toy reviews years and years ago on a site I won’t mention here, but it wasn’t until 2023 that I really started to prioritize sharing my experiences with the world via my YouTube channel, PornHub channel, and here on my blog.

When it comes to my pleasure, I reach orgasm easiest with penetration and clitoral stimulation, however I am part of the estimated 25% of vulva having people that can achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Overstimulation happens very quickly for me, so I really prefer a slow burn that helps me build up to orgasm. For me, that means I need a lot of foreplay, or to pleasure my partner(s) first so that I can last longer and have more orgasms. I also get really into strap-on topping, as the mental stimulation of pleasuring my partner(s) is just so hot that the experience turns me on like crazy. Strap-on topping while wearing a pussy plug or an insertable & wearable vibrator has been known to cause me to orgasm on numerous occasions. 

Even as someone who loves getting penetrated and penetrating others, I’m also an advocate of de-centralizing penetration as the only form of sex. Grinder sex toys are my favorite type of toy for enjoying non-penetrative sex. There’s something incredibly sexy about having a cutie desperately hump my thigh while they use a dildo or vibrator to pleasure me and I stimulate their nipples or genitals. 

My Pleasure Preferences

My hot takes on pleasure:

• Pinpoint clitoral stimulation > broad clitoral stimulation.
• Air-pulsation & suction do not pair well with penetration.
• Realistic skin tones don’t belong on non-realistic dildos.
• Sex isn’t over just because one person achieved orgasm.
• Pegging with a pussy plug in > strapless strap-on.
• Every body deserves pleasure.  

My favorite sex toys:

• FemmeFunn Klio
• BMS Pillow Talk Sassy
• Solina Toys Mega XL Ultra Realistic Dildo
• The Rainbow by Velvet Alley Toys
• Flick Wand Attachment by Le Wand