My BDSM Label


It’s a bit confusing for outsides who try to figure out what I identify as in the realm of BDSM. Sometimes, it’s a bit confusing for Me too. At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter much to Me. It matters to the people who want to have a definition of who Sydney Screams is, and by defining what role I play it helps someone define who I am. That’s a bit difficult, considering if you look at My clips4sale stores, I play roles that are both Dominate and submissive on top of roles that don’t fit into either.

I’ve had submissives try to argue that I’m not a true Dominatrix/Domme/Goddess/Mistress if I submit on camera…they process Me in submissive roles as a negative way to look at Me. I get that! I totally understand the idea of wanting to see a Domme who is only see in that role.

Whitney Dominates Sydney

Whitney Morgan dominates Me!

But that’s not how I see it.

I see it along the lines of the saying that to be a good Dom/me, one must understand and have experienced the sub role first. My opinion is that I am confident enough in My role as a Dominatrix that I am not intimidated, frightened, or worried to play a role that is submissive. Filming videos is a form of role play, quite literally it is acting. Maybe not on a stage or in a future theatrical release, but I am an actress. I love being an actress. I love role play that filming clips allows Me.

Yes, I’ve submit to both men and women off camera, but I’ve yet to submit to anyone who I’d want to continue that power exchange with. My experiences in a submissive role have left me bored, uninterested, angry, annoyed, and un-aroused. My goal with any scene (on camera, off camera, professional or personal) is to get aroused and have the person I’m playing with feel the same way. To have a scene where I’m unaroused is not a good scene. It’s just not.

Sydney Dominates Whitney

But wait! I dominated Whitney Morgan too

So where does that leave Me in terms of how I identify in the world of BDSM? I don’t. I don’t feel the need to have a strict role. Much like My sexuality, My preferences are very fluid. When I was young and uneducated, I called Myself a Domme but it didn’t stick. I was cocky and full of Myself, and I look back on that time as though I was one of those awful “Doms” on Fetlife who clearly have not read my profile and instantly demand that I submit to them. As I’ve become more educated and learned My way in the lifestyle, I’ve done away with titles. I am Me. I love Dominating others off camera. I love playing both Dominate and submissive roles on camera. I’m told that I do My job well, both on camera and off. My boyfriend is My submissive, so if you want to use that as a defining factor, I suppose you could say I’m a lifestyle Domme.

I won’t define Myself though. That’s limiting. I’m still in My 20’s, so I have a lot of time left to decide if I want to define Myself. If you want to define Me, you may call Me a “switch” but know that My preferred title is Goddess or Mistress.

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